Why? I Am This"

"I AM THIS"

The Path of Responsibly...

"I AM THIS""

The path of responsibility...

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Whenever events occurs knowingly or unknowingly  in the family or join family, whole family structure get hampered, we lost communication, comfort, focus, peace, harmony , health and some time we lost people because of fatal steps, last it create negative attack on our life, life, livelihood activities like FMB or business or profession or vocation or service field…

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We where initiated conversation, when ever I start conversation I always explain and make aware my people, what exact the path and tract we are going to be fallow or what exactly we are anchoring during our conversation, I really learn from my earlier experience, end of hours and hours discussion most of time I found end result was zero, you do not find any difference and whole effort get wasted, but when path or track is clear, then in less effort, we can reach exactly at the end result.

Path is very simple if one can accept on one to one basis; other wise there are no way and no meaning to initiate conversation. Heading of my article is “I am this” and it is path or responsibility or you can say path of being.

Let us make it simple, we human beings area 100% responsible for our life and action related life. We do not have way out to reject our responsibility. I told to my friend listen what ever decision have been taken by your daughter, she is not cause or to be blamed, cause is you, and you yourselves (Including your wife ) to be blamed. If you could able to digest central theme then there is mining to initiate conversation.

When ever such type o f event happened in the family, we blame children, we say presently children are very selfish, they do not respect elders, and they take their decision by their own. They do not bother about family or society, they are frank and aimless. When it become matter of social prestige, then whole issue take very serious turn and erected contra defense and whole family became against the child.

At that time child feel unsecured and many time, children take serious decision and leave home or flight with their lover or when they find they could not handle in-house or family pressure, they prefer to suicide themselves instantly.

Looking to the seriousness of the event, child should feel insecure at the home, if child remain in perpetual pressure or guilt then whole situation could go out of order. So that it is our first duty to make child comfortable at home, one should not or one should not allow entering in her privacy. How she became relax and ease is our first priority. Hand in hand we should do needful investigation about her proposed candidate. Our investigation should not be aggressive, other way round they boy is also having equal pressure about un certainty of the event.

My friend’s younger brother was resisting frequently, his expression and body language was disregarding. I know that it is great difficult to digest the theme of “I AM THIS”. At the end he asked, how she will survive in future?..

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